Middle-aged Christians

Is it just me or some of them act as if God owes THEM salvation and they can lord (pun intended) it over us like some privilege they alone have. It's not a right but a gift, isn't it? I am tired of their patronizing attitude. They annoy me. I prefer the really old christian people. They are more loving. They seem afraid of us but at least they care more than the 40-60 age bracket. Just my opinion. Hope I'm wrong. later.