Sex

Is it any wonder that sex is one of the most powerful urges in a person's life? We need it to procreate and we need it to relieve stress. One wonders though that the current world thinking that premarital sex is ok (and even preferable to marital sex) is precisely because God says NO! In that case, have u ever wondered what would've been the case if God had said you MUST have sex before marriage. You might disagree but I suspect that NOBODY would want to have sex. what I am trying to get at is that the tendency of humans is to disobey God so whatever He says, we want to do the opposite. That's my belief and Paul says that the flesh constantly wars against the Spirit (and all it stands for) so I don't think I am way off. What do you think?