Some things to meditate on.
These are some pieces of advice I've read, absorbed, been inspired by,
have inserted into my spirit by the Spirit or some other means. Hope
you appreciate it. Even though this email is primarily for Carl
Beckford (my spiritual godfather), I trust anyone else who reads it
will be edified. Who knows? If you follow them, they may actually make
you richer than you are right now. God bless you all.
1. Start off your dreams by making the first move. Stop planning and implement.
2. Be generous with money. It will come back to you.
3. Learn to be non-attached. Try your best to get what you want but if
you can't get it after you tried your best, release it and move on.
Less stress that way.
4. Be passionate but not too aggressive in pursuing what you want.
(I'm still learning this)
5. Meditate on your life often. Involve Jesus in this meditation.
6. Pay yourself before you pay the bills.
7. You can make excuses & you can make money but not at the same time.
Make your choice early.
8. Don't attack the problem, transcend it. Look for the root cause and fix it.
9. Don't make your moods dictate how you feel about money and vice versa.
10. If it sounds too good to be true, it usually is.
11. Recruit people more competent than you to work with/for you.
12. Don't worry about the state of the stock market at the time you
invest. Just do it. Stocks will increase over time.
13. React less, Respond more. Less stress.
14. Know your stuff. Don't just believe it. Belief is temporary while
knowledge is permanent.
15. Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Don't be
imprisoned by your past.
16. Surround yourself with experts.
17. Know what you don't know and what you are not good at.
18. Have a passion for life and your work.
19. Do what you love, money will follow.
20. Always be prepared to walk away from a negotiation. You can usually go back.
21. Be willing to change and accept it. If you do what you've always
done, you'll always get the same result.
22. Spend most of your time on the important stuff.
23. Show gratitude towards others.
24. Leave a great impression on others around you.
25. Wait on the Holy Spirit.
26. Reflect on your day. Learn from it.
27. Laugh at yourself and your mistakes. Less likely you repeat them.
28. Ask for exactly what you want.
29. Control your temper.
30. Eliminate your most self-defeating beliefs.
31. Circumstances don't make a person, they reveal the person.
32. From winning, successful partnerships. Choose partners carefully.
33. Let go of fearful thoughts.
34. Think BIG!
35. Make important decisions using long-term information instead of
short-term information.
36. Know when to bet, when to hold, and when to fold.
37. Change what you can and accept what you cannot.
38. Develop relationships with people BEFORE you want something from them.
39. Be aware of your unique workload limit. Do not exceed it!
40. Do not panic!
41. Envision things before they materialize.
42. Banish your doubt.
43. Know the secret of silence.
44. Save two years of living expenses. This will give you leverage at work.
45. Focus on getting rid of your fear of disapproval.
46. Know where the REALLY cheap bargain places are in Jamaica.
47. Don't rely on too much data to make a decision.
48. Have mentor/mentors for each aspect of your life. (Carl, you are
mine spiritually. Have fun influencing my mind)
49. Delight in the success of others.
50. Think of the possible consequences of your decisions before you make them.
51. Remember Jesus' golden rule. (If you don't know the rule, that
says a lot about your spiritual life.)
52. Don't be afraid to ask for referrals.
53. "Opportunity only knocks once" is a myth.
54. Try to share expenses with trusted people.
55. Encourage creativity in your people/subordinates and have faith in
them until PROVEN wrong.
56. Don't give away your power/authority to others just because they
are "experts".
57. Charge what you are worth when you are doing a job unless you
doing voluntary service. (You can always give a discount!)
58. Make the effort to really listen to others.
59. Cultivate a sense of humour and learn to smile when you are
conversing with people.
60. Develop a sense of trustworthiness and reliability so that others
will believe your words and trust your actions. This does wonders for
your reputation. Let your word represent you. (This is one of my
favourite sayings. Hope I am doing it well overall.)
61. Be willing to take advice. Don't throw out the message just
because you don't like the messenger. ( I think this is a church
problem though).
62. When confronted with a problem, ask yourself how you contributed
to the problem.
63. Remember that intelligence is more important than intellect. (This
is also one of my major mental stratagems.)
64. Remove the words, "It's not my job." from your vocabulary. Do what
you see needs to be done. Especially if you are a part of a team.
(This is my major problem. I am single-minded. Help Carl!)
65. More is not always better. Don't let being busy in church get in
the way of being useful to God.
66. Think "outside of the box" when trying to find solutions.
67. Don't dwell on past mistakes. Don't intentionally repeat them either.
68. Help others succeed in life.
69. Persevere in your pursuits. Things do not normally work out overnight.
70. Consider the wisdom of optimism. (Carl, definitely your
strongpoint. Definitely NOT mine.)
71. Hold on tightly but if you have to, let go lightly.
72. Be willing to apologize.
73. Lighten up your face. Don't embrace and feed your stress. STOP
WORRYING! It insults Jesus and is actually a sin! (Another major
mental focus for me.)
74. Remember that everything is "used" (and thus loses value) the day
after you buy it "new".
75. Cheaper is not always better.
76. Remember that life is not your enemy but your attitude/mindset can
be your worst enemy.
77. Resist the temptation to constantly raise your standard of living
just because you get a raise in income.
78. Have a plan.
79. Don't get lost in your plan.
80. Don't commiserate. It's just a cute way to complain.
81. Work at your goals. Also, create the environment for your success.
82. Don't forget to have fun in life. Jesus ordained it. He died for it too.
83. Don't sweat the small stuff. It's not worth the strife.
84. Remember your marriage is your primary witness. Have it as a
priority. A lot of marriages in Glad Tidings don't SEEM happy. Make
sure yours represents Christ and the church.
85. Children are also a witness. If you claim to be a spiritual leader
and your children mock God in their actions, it undermines your
ministry. Bear that in mind as you plan for any future
"eventualities". (wink).
86. Seek Godly wisdom, knowledge and understanding. It has done
wonders for Melville Lumley's attitude on life. It may do the same for
you.
87. God bless you. Be loyal to your friends. My loyalty & respect is
earned. They aren't cheap either. Congrats on earning it, Carl
Beckford. Have a good day. Don't shift your focus from God to the
church. That is religion. Guard against it. Hope you have a support
network of competent Christians.
88. Did I say God bless you? God bless you. (In case I didn't say God bless you)