Reprinted from TheologyWeb for you guys to read ( www.theologyweb.com)

I'm a single guy nearly 25. I don't go to singles bars or places like that. I stick with meeting women at work and church and places where you don't go to specifically "pick up women."

Anyhow, I've read enough about what women are complaining about. Let me say some stuff and see if any single guys relate or married guys remember. A lot of this could mirror what MuzicMan said as well.

First off, we can understand mathematical theories and philosophical ideas and scientific discoveries, but we CANNOT understand body language. I cannot understand if you are flirting with me or being friendly. Maybe you can understand us, but we can't understand you.

Second, we need some real clue you're interested. Many of us won't ask unless we think there's some slight chance you might actually say yes. When we play games, we play because we want to win. When we ask a girl out, it's because we think they'll say yes.

Thirdy, I want to be clear that we will think about sex, but that is not all we think about. Some of us do think about being nice guys and sometimes if we think about sex, we think about your pleasure and bringing you pleasure more than us.

Fourthly, Even if we date, just because we do not spend every second with you does not mean that we do not care about you. We need time alone with our friends to do totally guy stuff just like you need time with other females to do female stuff.

Fifthly, please don't give us that talk about saying "I just want a nice guy who will care about my feelings." I've seen enough girls that say that and simply instead date the next guy that comes along who physically reminds them of Brad Pitt. Say it if you mean it and then act accordingly. I'd prefer if you even just said "I want a guy with some muscles" just to be honest.

Sixthly, those of us that are Christians, be supportive around us. We are going to be tempted many times. Just because a guy loves JEsus Christ does not mean that he loses his hormones. We want to wait also. Remember grace and remind us of our Lord if we really get tempted.

Seventhly, we want marriage material also. It's more than having an awesome figure or being a toothpick. It's seeing if you have good qualities that are supportive in a marriage relationship and if you'll be a good mother.

Well that's some more of my ranting. If anyone has anything to add, feel free to do so.