Participating in Church

I see so many children participating in church when they're young, then as they get older, they slack off. Don't the adults see that children can go through the motions just as well ( if not better) as they can? Or do they really think that these children are doing it out of love. I believe that the vast majority of children active in church do so under STRONG parental pressure. That's why the minute they are free to choose their destiny, they reject church as they were turned off by this. Just my opinion. Noticed how children of pastors have a reputation for being bad? Also children of other church leaders? Ever think why? I personally believe that most church leaders present a front to us in church while their home life stinks. My opinion. Why? I look at their children. If they can't control their kids, who they have control over, how can they lead me? Stop condemning others if your child is just as bad. Fix the beam before the speck. I hope that the parents will wise up soon, start modeling God before their children so they will fall in love God and serve in church permanently. Just a dream?