Elders who don't set examples

It annoys me. They talk a talk that they can't (or won't) walk. What's the point? For instance, there is a "no cinema" rule for church members but when "The Passion of the Christ" came out, so many prominent members went to watch it IN DIRECT CONTRAVENTION OF CHURCH RULES. So what is a poor impressionable youngster like me to do? Go to watch a movie too? (To be fair, it wouldn't be The Passion of the Cjhrist" but probably "Kill Bill"!). Then we are supposed to have manners to them as young people but they pass you without a good morning, they ignore you unless they want you to do some stuff for them, etc. I have gotten so upset with the situation that I've declared a "war" of sorts with older people (christians over 40) as they are falling down badly when it comes to common respect for all. I know it's wrong as 2 wrongs definitely don't make a right but I won't take crap from people who should know better. If God saved us all so we could all work together as one body, at least have common courtesy to all members of the body. Just my opinion. I could be wrong. Read 1 Corinthians 12. It may help you. Later.